The Dry Season : Melissa Febos on Finding Pleasure in a Year Without Sex

Three years on from hosting a discussion of her brilliant book Body Work, we are beyond thrilled to welcome the bestselling American feminist Melissa Febos to the bookshop for an Edinburgh launch of her new book The Dry Season, hosted by Dina Nayeri!

This latest is a memoir of Melissa's year of celibacy, and a profound exploration of independence, sexuality and deep self-knowledge - The Dry Season offers Febos distinctive blend of self-excavation and philosophy, a wise and transformative examination of solitude, freedom, and feminist heroes.

'So full of wisdom and pleasure that you don't want it to end' MAGGIE NELSON

In the wake of a disastrous two-year relationship, Melissa Febos decided to take a break - for three months she would abstain from dating, relationships and sex. Her friends were amused. Did she really think three months was a long time? But to Melissa, it was. Ever since her teens, she had been in one relationship or another. It was time to focus on herself and examine the lifelong patterns that had got her to this point. When those three months ended, she decided to extend her celibate period, fearing that she had not yet gained the clarity she was searching for. She knew she was taking on a challenge but had no idea that this year would become the most fulfilling and sensual of her life. No longer defined by her romantic pursuits, Melissa learned to relish the delights of solitude, the thrill of living on her own terms, the pleasures unmediated by lovers and the freedom to pursue her ideals without distraction or guilt. She began to see her life and her self-worth in a radical new way. Her year of divestment transformed her relationships with friends and peers, her work, creativity - and most of all her relationship to herself.